“Holes in the Boat”

I found this quote to be very thought-provoking:

“Make sure everyone in your boat is rowing and not drilling holes when you are not looking. Know your circle.” – Anon

There are five types of people you will encounter on this journey we call life:

1. Those excited for you and where you are headed. They are rowing with you and encouraging you every step of the way.
2. Those who smile and say they are with you, but inwardly have doubts. Although they are going through the motions, they are not happy about your success.
3. Those who only want to go along for the ride. They offer no assistance or encouragement.
4. Those who resent you and are subtly punching holes in the boat to keep you from succeeding. Sadly, they are so blinded by their envy to realize that they are also drowning themselves.
5. Those who are very open about wanting you to fail. They make it every clear in their words and actions that they want you to fail by any means necessary.

It is critical that you know everyone you allow “on the boat with you.”

A good test is to share your vision. Those that say, “Great! How can I help!” are probably “keepers.” Others who ask “Why would you do that? Why this boat? Do you need the others? “ are probably those you should avoid.

This reminds us of Jonah in the Bible. The other fisherman had to understand who was on the boat causing the seas to rage. When it was determined that it was Jonah, they had to make the tough decision to throw him overboard, or risk all of them perishing. (Jonah 1:16 NKJV)

We may need to evaluate if people in our lives are causing the seas to rage; punching holes in the boat; not rowing or helping us on the journey; just going along for the ride or actively want you to fail. Embrace those who are supportive, encouraging and assist you on your journey. Avoid and eliminate those who are not.

Life rule to live by:

Pay attention. Make “boating adjustments” as needed.