Thursday, May 7, 2015

“Reign” It In…

We are living in a new age of “self-expression” and outer actions lacking inner thought. It can be compared to the life of a horse.

We often think of horses when we watch the coveted Kentucky Derby. When the race begins, they run at full speed. However, after crossing the finish line, they have to be slowed down.

When riding a horse, one must pull back on the reigns (leather straps fastened on to a horse’s bridle and used to control the horse) to get it to calm down, slow down or stop. https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=reign+it+in+meaning

Many act like an upset horse…raring back, snorting, showing teeth, trying to shake off the rider, running off….actions which resolve nothing.

You may find yourself to be overwhelmed by actions that include:
JUMPING to conclusions
RUNNING our mouths
STRETCHING the truth
BENDING the rules
BREAKING our necks to be liked or to please others
STEPPING on others’ toes
STOMPING on others’ feelings
KICKING someone when they are down
SITTING on the sidelines
BEATING yourself up with negative “self-talk”
THROWING unfair “punches” at others and yourself
SWEATING the small stuff
FALLING short of reaching your goals
SWIMMING in debt and despair
PUSHING aside signals our bodies give us

As a horse needs “reigning in,” so do our emotions. We can redirect our energy and efforts toward more effective actions such as:
REACHING for the stars and our dreams
STEPPING out on faith
SQUASHING out lies and gossip
STANDING on the promises of GOD
WORKING OUT your own soul salvation
TONING your words, emotions and attitude
LEANING on the “everlasting arms”
RUNNING “with endurance the race that is set before us”
LIFTING your spirits and mood
SHAKING OFF criticism and negativity
CHANGING your attitude
BUILDING “your hopes on things eternal”
BOOSTING your energy toward serving others
SHARPENING your saw (by reading and constantly learning)
EXERCISING discipline
INHALING clean air
EXHALING stress, worry and fear
MEDITATING on the Word of God (The Bible)

The Bible says:
James 1:19 (NIV):  19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
Philippians 2:12 (NKJV):  12 “…work out your own salvation with fear and trembling;”
Hebrews 12:1(NKJV):  “…let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

Memorable Quotes:
“You can lead a human to knowledge, but you can’t make him think.”
“Don’t do something permanently stupid because you are temporarily angry, stressed, scared or tired.”
“Your worst battle is between what you know and what you feel.”
“No matter the situation, never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.”

We often should react like a horse by:  Calming Down, Breathing, “Drinking Water,” Accepting a Rub-Down, Listening to Soothing Words or Eating a Sugar Cube… J

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